21 People Confess The Reasons Why They Hate Living With Their Partners

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After you’ve been dating someone for a while, the natural next step in a relationship is to move in together. But like any couple who has lived together knows, there’s going to be an adjustment period. Maybe he’s a little messier than you’re used to or maybe you like leaving your clothes everywhere and he throws a fit about it.

These little idiosyncrasies can become big problems if you don’t communicate about them. Just take it from a few people who absolutely hate living with their partners and are taking to Whisper to confess the reasons why.

1. You start to miss your own space.

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2. One person is more easy-going than the other.

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3. There’s nowhere to go when the truth comes out.

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4. The kids don’t always get along.

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5. Parents might not approve of you living together.

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6. Sleeping arrangements are stressful.

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7. Three can be a crowd.

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8. You’re together all of the time.

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9. You might be cleaner than he is.

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10. Maybe you end up spending less time together.

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11. The truth comes out.

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12. You find yourselves in a rut.

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13. It happened too soon.

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14. You weren’t ready to live together.

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15. Feeling like a stranger to the city.

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16. Things get awkward.

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17. You need your space too.

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18. You pick up on little things.

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19. There’s no backtracking.

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20. Things get stale.

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21. Long distance made the heart grow fonder.

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