Many times in life, it so happens that we meet people at the wrong time. Even if two people are destined to be together, if it’s not the right time, things just won’t work out. Think of it this way—how many times have you dated someone that was in a completely different stage of their life (emotionally, mentally) and because of this, you could never see eye-to-eye? Maybe you wanted to move forward—get married, start a family—and your partner was too busy clubbing and bar-hopping every weekend.
Well, I hate to break it to you, but when you aren’t ready for the “right one,” the right one won’t wait around for you. So often, people think that “true love will wait,” but, that’s unrealistic and a bunch of fairy tale garbage. To prove it, I bring you Twitter user Rev Rell, who shared a story of her friend who lost a good girl forever.
People online were applauding the thread, thanking her for being so real and honest, and sharing their own experiences that this is—indeed—facts.
This thread pic.twitter.com/Lqq0vkJlqr
— 🇩🇴ATTN Youngins: Stay out of my DMs (@HarlemMC) February 23, 2019
No one wants to be a last minute option.. and no one wants to wait around forever.. I love this thread.. 💜
— QueenofThe7kingdoms ✨ (@kikiMari3) February 23, 2019
This thread 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 pic.twitter.com/RH75XYo81y
— SaintYourAunt (@yadada_mean_) February 24, 2019
— Jahrell Carroll (@JahrellC) February 23, 2019
I waited 3 years for a guy to get his shit together and be with me. I finally realized that he was never going to feel the same. He hit me up asking for ass the night before I went on my first date with my now husband, and I’m so glad I blocked him. pic.twitter.com/Dhk5fdoQQ0
— Margot Robbie IRL (@WesGerrr) February 24, 2019
Loved reading this. Been through this time and time again trying to help someone change but ended up taking away from my own peace & hurting myself along the way. Let her go and let her be happy. pic.twitter.com/VaEsdXSXuK
— Whoa-KIM-osabe (@WhoaKimosabe1) February 24, 2019
Real talk 🗣 if you don’t appreciate someone, they’ll simply move on and leave you behind.
— Amy (@amygair_) February 23, 2019
Elite thread. I hope men and women reading this; myself especially take dressing and act right. Don't take the piss with anyone. People actually die of a broken heart, go to hospital EDs and ask
— …to Jesus be my glory (@1SweeneyPerry) February 24, 2019
Now this is the type of truth coaching that should have saturated Steve Harvey’s trash books. You are doing the world a great service, sir. I salute you my brotha!
— srburris (@srburris) February 24, 2019
This gotta be my favorite relationship thread I have EVER seen on Twitter. Real talk af
— Katherine Pippin (@katherinepippin) February 24, 2019