You can call them myopic, rude, condescending, or worse, but let’s just call a spade a spade here: these bosses are s**tty.
Imagine working for someone who thinks that you have the right to tell a sibling to change their birthday reservations.
Or someone who as no salary negotiation offer but asks for one. I mean — don’t imagine too hard, I don’t want your brain to explode with anger. But that’s the kind of crap every one of these people has had to deal with.