When it comes to cheating, everyone who is involved is wrong. Cheating on someone is inexcusable and disgusting–even if you’ve fallen out of love with your partner. There are better ways to end a relationship than to cheat.
I’m a firm believer that if you have the balls to cheat on someone, but don’t have the guts to end the relationship, you’re the biggest kind of coward there is. Many people will agree with me on that sentiment. I have both cheated and have been cheated on and I can solemnly say that my biggest regret was not ending my relationship instead of cheating–no matter how much time has past.
However, there are those who believe that when someone cheats in a relationship, it’s because the person they are with is “lacking something” that the individual found in someone else. While it’s not the most popular opinion in the realm of cheating in relationships, there are many who do believe it.
One woman on Twitter is getting dragged this week–hard–for her unconventional views on cheating. Lorena Ramos tweeted her opinions towards women who are cheated on–saying that if a man cheats on you, it’s because you lack something that the woman he cheated on you with just doesn’t.
IF HE CHEATED ON U, instead of leaving him just understand the fact that u lack something which the girl he cheated on u with doesn’t. Find out the error in urself, apologize to him, say sorry to him. Accept it be a better woman. He’s innocent and u are the one with guilt.Shut up
— Lorena Ramos (@Loraynaah) August 15, 2018
Clearly, this is ridiculous and absurd. Sorry, not sorry–but it’s wrong, disgusting, and juvenile to believe that someone should apologize to a man who cheats on them and disobeys their trust and loyalty. Obviously, being a “better woman” would not be to apologize to the man, but to warn the new woman that once a cheater, always a cheater.
Since Lorena posted the status this week, Twitter has been ripping her apart.
— cole (@niicoleemarriie) August 16, 2018
i hope he sees this and picks u babe
— Faith Morell (@oneofkings) August 16, 2018
— ~??????♡ (@peachybloesch) August 16, 2018
— I LOVE ARIANA GRANDE SM OOF (@5soswhazup) August 16, 2018
— Analisse? (@Analisse237) August 16, 2018
What kinda crack u smoking sis
— bitch ?? (@Analimon53) August 15, 2018
— kween bee (@Urafukboi1) August 16, 2018
It’s alright guys I fixed it pic.twitter.com/PIaU0RumFH
— Grace x (@grace_mccrory) August 16, 2018
let me remove my bang so i can read that again
— Gabriela ? (@shutupgabbyy) August 16, 2018
— alexis alvarenga (@lovely_alexiss3) August 16, 2018
— ?????? (@alliedoraz) August 16, 2018
i want to go off but i want to have a job in the future
— Allie Adkison (@allieadkison13) August 16, 2018
girllll no. he cheated. no excuse. pic.twitter.com/Nazv1vPDiE
— Makena Wegner (@its_makena) August 16, 2018
Um what? pic.twitter.com/pxgntdUwvi
— M? (@melindam___) August 16, 2018
— Valerie Olivas (@ValerieOlivas21) August 16, 2018
— Andrew (@AndrewCurcione) August 16, 2018
— marcy? (@vidaenmars) August 16, 2018
— ✿ Alana Rose? ✿ (@x0alana) August 16, 2018
— Ali (@AVanRosendale) August 16, 2018
— Andrew Pritchard? (@abplfc) August 16, 2018
— Samara? (@samaraaxo) August 16, 2018
Clearly, it’s going to be a no from everyone.